Random thoughts and topics from a simple girl traveling on this road we call life. Life challenges come into play every day and there is nothing that we can do about it. But one thing we can do effectively and efficiently is express ourselves in ways that the world can relate. OR at least try to understand the things that some individuals go through.
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Ladies if you aren't scared of libraries you should be...
I am telling you that eyes are filthier than toilets. We need antiseptics for the thoughts in the thought bubbles above these peoples heads. I mean it is just simply crazy. There are many people that sit and lie in the library and truly inside I think that some of these people come to look at booty and thighs and even eyes.
Hey, it could just be me. I love everyone but the stress to look good to come in the library is like going to a midday class. That little thought on the inside that says that someone will see me and notice me. You know you have that urge every now and then...
Now on the creepy part...
Old men that download music onto their ipods and mp3's. They are so funny but they love to look in your face while to search for the hottest gossip on the web or on the hotspot known as Facebook. I promise if they could look you up, that would not be the only thing they would be observing...
Next thing we know they will probably requesting me on my myspace because you know old dirty men do not have Facebooks because it is too upscale... they have to downgrade to myspace so they can blend in with the other pervs...
(Ladies stay off of there too!!)
To be continued at a later date... just had to warn you...
Love is defined as love (check here for more information.)
Love is (to me at least) gradual. It is something that is in need of growth; it has to have a backbone before it can grow into a spine. It needs joints before it can move.
Get me?
A person may say there is a reality in love at first sight. Me,I believe there is no such thing. I dont think a person could see a pretty face and force themseleves to accept their own impressions that this someone is meant to be their other half. I see no reality in that. Not at all, not without someone speaking, without true emotion but based on first sight. Get real!
But what I do see as reality is personal intimacy and relationship growth as well as inner growth. What I mean is the love a person can have for another can not be truly real unless the love for self is inside giving and building up on its self.
No one can determine how you as a person lives and feels but my thoughts are basically to inform self than to inform you the reader. Understanding self is important, especially dealing with relationships and friendships.
MY POINT OF VIEW:
Relationships whether it is just close friends or partnered (coupled) they should be talked through. These days because of the lack of communication and severe assumptions, relationships fail. Cheating becomes a thought more so than an issue or even the assumptions of the relationship. Is it serious? Is this just a friendship? or Even, if it is just sex?
Within relationships and friendships the love situation can not just be assume. Love is an art form not a word or put emphasis a person's actions that they may use it towards.
OFF SUBJECT:
Just like some feel they can cheat and say I love you and everything is fine... or Just like others may feel that they can piss off their other half and they could say those three words and everything is fine...
No,No,No, nothing is ever fine when controlling an issue with the three exact words that are meant for feelings.
Have you ever had this one male that chooses to upset you? Most of the time on purpose?
Well I have this one male in my life that choses to press my nerves just because he can... I am trying my hardest to figure out what his angle is,
Is it love? Is it torture? or Is it just his own way of figuring me out? better yet Telling me that he is my meant to be?
I have heard this saying, "The one that bothers the hell out of you the most is the one person that you may spend the rest of your life with." This statement is very intriguing to me and I love that thoughts of questioning the motives behind his actions and the statement comparing them day in and day out.
I wonder if God put this MAN in my life to aggravate me, just like he has my father. Them two kind of remind me of one another and that scares me alot. Why because of this common saying, "The one you love will always be the replica of you the one that has been there through your life whether it is physically or blood related." Yes, I said blood related.
My heart use to cry for any type of attention I could get at the time but now I am content. I can stand on my own and have been for a while. I do not need a boy or man to validate who I am just like I do not need a female to tell me what I need to change or how to keep a man because the one thing I do know is that a male will say if he wants to and if he doesn't he will leave.
There is nothing that a female can do or a male can do to keep the person that they choose to have in their lives. It is all a want or need basis and it depends on the persons actions, emotions, and choices. (I had to learn the hard way.)
The men in my life including family members have given me lots of practice and experiences are a need so now when intuition kicks in... I listen to it and believe in it.
But back to me:
This one male upsets me...
(As PETER GRIFFIN says, "He grinds my gears.")
But honestly, for someone to get on my nerves I must like him that much....
I am misunderstood by today's society. I am viewed as a common "chick" that just sits and laughs at everything... aka... WEIRD. I am not a girl that you could just put into a category. That you could just compare to another female.
Yeah you all say that every female is the same that they all have a category or that the female puts herself into a category stating that same cliche' line, "I am different, I am not like all the others. DON'T categorize me with your ex's."
But really I am not like the others.
I am that girl that was once in middle school (like every other college student) Right? Right! Not! See I was that girl that people do not want to remember because I bring up the past. I have good memory and do NOT forget anything (well just about). No, they do NOT like me.
That girl that MALES want to forget that they did things to or towards because I am not the "click chick" of today's society. I am the girl that has no problem being by herself (NOW)!!! It took time to get to that point in life but believe I have gotten there. I am the female of tomorrow, the female that stands up to the sexes battle instead of fighting in it. I am who I am..
That is where the male society comes into play.
Sex:I leave it where it is. Why? because it seems that because of the town I stay in... It is just to small for me... Keep your legs closed ladies...
Men can smell p***y from far off especially if they feel they can slide in with no problem.
Relationships:Misunderstanding me... can dig a hole for a lot of men... Examples: A male breaks up with me for what? He doesn't know. (I know why...) Being around for a long period of time does not give you the right to touch the panties. Just saying.
Breakups: Broke up with him because I got stood up for an interview... He definitely misunderstood me after 8 months because he called me telling me to get dressed to go to the MOON... like are you serious? He got me twisted all up in knots.. (definitely got cut loose)
Using: I don't know what happened with this DUMB MALE. (lol) He used his myspace to cheat on me with, NOTE: I made it! Got me twisted, Why? Because he acted as if he did NOT know me enough to know that I have common sense. I definitely can read. (lol)
Each heading tells a story not in my life only but in everyone else's at some point in their life... You should comment and tell me your story for at least one of the headings. Quote: "I laugh at the h***s that claim to put a dent in my soul" Sincerely, The chosen Beauty
The question that lies in the back of my mind is, "Does the song Becky influence sexual "thoughts" or "tendencies" within relationships or sexual occurrences?"
Plies, a rap artist, currently released a song entitled "Becky". Becky is implied to be a sexual term for giving "head", "sucking someone up", 'forehead to stomach", "wrapped lips around a pole" (lmao) (I think you get the picture) unless I have mistakenly misunderstood the song (which I highly doubt). Do NOT get me wrong I listen to the song and it DO be bumpin' but, Does it affect our current relationships and future relationships?
I know from close personal experiences that things that Plies and Lil Wayne has said and implied towards sexual tendencies that have influenced our (Chocolate) men to use these terms or comments toward women. I have heard men call females bitches, which is so disrespectful. I have heard my brother tell his ex girlfriend, "I thought you were my other women!" (in the words of Wayne) (Which is not as bad as the others but is still a form of disrespect.) Is this right because we condone also known as listen to this music on a regular bases and juck to in our current clubs? We as females LOVE our big mouthed but too short Pliez because of his wild ways but his sexual thoughts...but we never do think on the way it may affect the other sex. If we as women condone such wild behavior and sexual words from a rap artist who probably 98% of the time dont think twice about what he say because of the dollas that come from it, should we as women, accept it from males in our society is that right? As you see, I am not really answering these questions because I am not YOU. I am just an innocent by stander, not a hypocrite. I am just stating the real and the unreal, my thoughts and the thoughts that contradict our daily behaviors as men and women.
"On this liquor oh so heavy b4 we f**k can you necky, a little that head and I am ready, I don't want yo body,Give me that Becky"!!!!
