Hang
on to him/her like skies if you want but prepare for the failure that is coming
your way. Walking around on this planet as if this one man/woman is the only
one that exists is a self inflicted failure. No one can take anything from you
but the devil and if you would like to say that the other woman is the devil
then do so but she is not the culprit in the “Hanging by a Thread” relationship.
It
is the same way with men; women are not the innocent ones in the “Hanging by a
Thread” relationship either. Yes, women are sneaky individuals but men are just
as guilty. Men can be really dumb when it comes to dealing with other women and
even when it comes to covering up their tracks; use a broom not a hoe. Women
are smarter but they have the ability to be just as nonchalant as men. That is the
TACTIC: BOLD=self explanatory.
For those of you who don’t know about TACTIC:
BOLD, it is basically the idea of a male or female doing everything and
anything possible to show you that they are interested in or cheating on you
with someone else. It could be texting women that they are interested in,
talking to them on the phone, messaging them on facebook, writing on their
walls (Facebook/MySpace) in very bold or code messages, going to see them and
telling you, or having sex in your car or his.
Even more extreme things like letting the
broad retaliate happen upon you (letting the female/male call your phone,
talking to your best friends, messaging you or writing you on your Facebook page)
can be a huge sign but remember when all of this is happening in your face; it
should not be ignored.
DON’T
FORGET YOUR GUT FEELING!!! And LISTENING TO WHAT HE/SHE SAYS AS WELL AS
YOURSELF. YOU MAYBE SPEAKING WHAT YOUR SPIRIT TELL YOU BUT YOU MAY NOT BE
LISTENING TO YOURSELF ENOUGH IN ORDER TO GET THE SOLUTION OR THE TRUTH.
WHAT
ARE YOU FIGHTING FOR?
Arguing,
fussing, fighting, and yelling over the phone to someone else that is not in
your relationship is meaningless and very childish. Messaging back and forth on
Facebook is childish as well and that includes instant messaging. Stop that
childish nonsense. If you are over the age of 13 you should most definitely
know better.
Honestly,
I am not writing this for my health just to fill up this blog page. I am most
definitely trying to send out a message to individuals who have these issues
because I have been there done that. All this childish fighting over a BOY/GIRL
because of what he/she has given you and what he/she is doing with the other
person is ridiculous. He/she is to blame soooo…..
GO TO THE SOURCE!!!
The
source is the factor in the drama (the other half). It is not your fault nor is
it the other person’s fault that his/her focus is headed towards another
person. That is their desire to be with someone else other than you. It is all
about temptation. Temptation is a bit** and there is nothing you can do to
control it. Keeping track of what he/she does, calling them every three minutes
will only get you more attached and cause them to detach much more, pushing
them farther away; where they most likely would like to be.
SIDE
NOTE: (This goes for the opposite sex also)
-TO
THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE SEEKING MEN AND DON’T HAVE ONE BUT WANTS SOMEONE ELSES’….
Stop
requesting the girlfriend on Facebook and MySpace, that is very stalkerish and
out of line. That then makes you a whore and gives the female ample opportunity
to whoop your azz.
-TO
THE GIRLFRIENDS WHO ARE TRYING TO KEEP AN EYE OUT ON YOUR BOYFRIENDS….
You
cannot do that through his page. Stop adding everyone he talks to; sooner or
later it would be really hard to keep track plus you might see something that
you don’t like, jump to conclusions and then loose that one you love in the
process… now you wouldn’t want that would you?
Now
tuning back to the story in progress………………………………………………………......
NOTHING
COMES OUT THE BLUE!!!
Ladies
and Gentleman a break up never comes out the blue. Never! Reason being there
were plenty of caution signs that were placed along the road that you chose to
ignore, whether you like it or not after the break up is when you really start
to notice all the warning signs. I have been there done that as well and I know
it definitely won’t be the last time that it happens either. The world
circulates and it never stops so in the mean time I try to avoid situations by
paying attention to who I deal with (hint hint) and their habits (hint hint).
Something as simple as calling you everyday to simply texting you all the time
is a major change but you may not notice much because you still consider it as
communication and your life is truly busy. (It is a sign.) = (the reason for
the change was revealed to me that he had something to hide and talking to me
would make him feel guilty) how weak but so true.
PROMISES:
CAN’T KEEP EM’
Promises
to marry and bold statements about I want to have your kids! Even now I would
never understand why these statements would be made by a cheater or someone who
does not want to be with the person the promises are made too. People fail to
realize that the things they say to another individual they are in a
relationship with are not just words but are taken as the truth. We as
individuals in a relationship build our trust up for the person that we share
our time with and for an individual to tell you things like this constantly and
over time at least over 6 months of dating (for this day and age) it starts to
set in that it could be a possibility.
Purpose
for speaking these words got me to the highest extent and I do not think anyone
but God could explain the meanings behind those statements. But what I am
saying that after a certain amount of time, like marriage (specifically), if
you have been promised over and over again and it has not happened there is a
possibility that it will not happen. (Just saying but hey it is just my opinion
right?)
Ending
Quotes:
“Trust
and believe in the person you with but don’t believe everything you hear them
say.”
“Promises
are not always kept.”
“Never
let the noticed go unnoticed.”
“Love
with your heart and not your sex.”
“Avoid
getting emotionally attached to someone who shows no interest in you.”
“If
he/she is taken please leave that relationship alone; it doesn’t involve you.”
“Always,
pray about your relationships. Serious or Unserious.”
